From the day I became self-aware, something always felt off. The things other people did confused me. It seemed like everyone else had it figured out—they knew exactly what to like to be “cool.” They knew the right things to say, the right things to do. More than anything, they seemed “normal.”

  “Marry, and you will regret it; don't marry, you will also regret it; marry or don't marry, you will regret it either way.” - Soren Kierkegaard

I don’t believe in magic. Most people want things to just “happen” to them without ever taking the first step, the catalyst, one inertia building action that sets everything else in motion. This is typically all it takes to get even the largest goals and dreams in your grasp and suddenly they don’t seem so insurmountable…